I realize that many of you may have already surfed through this site before, but perhaps you haven't, in which case you will think I am a genius for promoting this site...
http://www.geocities.com/RainForest/Vines/3951/noback/sex.html#genderwar
It is some of the ponderings of someone many of us recognize from around the web... I won't directly name him, but will just say that the beginning of his handle starts with "Zen" and it ends with "priest".
Some good surfing and thought provoking articles in here - an evening well spent!