Don't compliment unless it's something you are genuinely impressed by (authenticity is the key).
Everyone likes to feel unique and special in
their own way. Show interest in HER and her life. Believe me, she will make your
ears bleed. (this will come off naturally since you are already interested in
her, therefore interested in what she does, etc.) While you are finding out
everything about her, YOU have remained a mystery since you're not trying to
'sell' yourself. The chick will love someone asking about herself (thus
validating in her eyes that she's 'special') AND her interest in you will grow
because she wants to know more about you. Not bad for letting your ears bleed,
eh? Also, the more information you get, the better and more precise you can take
the next step with a higher probility of success.
DON'T be sweet. LISTEN
to her and add in your thoughts (don't try to FIX her problems, UNDERSTAND
them). When a trait or feeling comes up that you agree with, don't hesitate to
tell her. She will feel a 'connection' with you and her interest level will
If she ever makes you mad, tell her EXACTLY WHY YOU'RE MAD.
Amazingly, girls LOVE IT when guys will ***** at them because girls want HONESTY
and DIRECTNESS. Many girls will put up a 'test' of standing you up just to see
if you will swallow it like a 'nice guy' or if you will have the STRENGTH to put
them in their place (Women are not attracted to guys they can
Humour is always good. Always be lightspirited, warm, and
humourous. But when she is talking to you seriously, always listen and
UNDERSTAND how she feels.
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