Thursday, June 03, 2004

Bonecrcker #156 - Friends With Benefits

I’ve done the "friends with benefits" thing too. Basically, what happened was a woman I was in a relationship with demoted me to the status of sex object (I don’t want to be your boyfriend anymore, but I still want to have sex). The point of this situation is their respect for you has dropped to a very low point, but they still need you for something (in my case, it was for sex, but many times, it is something more utilitarian). Their behavior towards you gets more and more uncaring and disrespectful. Just say no.

This doesn’t mean you should commit to a woman….no, no, no. What this does mean is the relationship only lasts as long as she is still willing to work hard and compete in order to “get” you. When that behavior ends, she usually leaves (note that actually “getting” you tends to end the behavior made). Sometimes though, they want to hang on for various reasons. Don’t let them.

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Bonecrcker #35 – You Mean Nothing To A Woman Until You Have Sex

Bonecrcker #38 – You Mean Nothing Until You Have Sex II

Bonecrcker #127 – Timing Is Important

Bonecrcker #128 – Women as “Friends”

Bonecrcker #130 – Never Allow A Woman To Call You A Friend Unless You’ve Had Sex At Least Once